The Bible teaches that reconciliation between enemies is both a command and a reflection of the gospel. At its core, reconciliation is about restoring peace where there was once conflict, just as God reconciled sinful man to Himself through Jesus Christ.
Jesus taught the importance of reconciliation in personal relationships:
“Therefore if you bring your gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you… first be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.”
(Matthew 5:23–24)
This shows that God values reconciliation above religious ritual. Peace with others is not optional; it is a requirement for those who walk with God.
The most powerful reconciliation in Scripture is between God and mankind:
“Now all things are of God, who has reconciled us to Himself through Jesus Christ… that God was in Christ reconciling the world to Himself…”
(2 Corinthians 5:18–19)
This vertical reconciliation is the foundation for horizontal reconciliation between people. Believers are called “ambassadors for Christ” (v. 20), carrying a message of peace and urging others to be reconciled to God, and by extension, to each other.
Romans 12:18 commands:
“If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men.”
This doesn’t guarantee peace with everyone, but it requires believers to do everything within their power to seek it.
Jesus also said:
“Love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you…”
(Matthew 5:44)
This isn’t about passivity; it’s about overcoming evil with good (Romans 12:21).
Forgiveness, humility, and truth are essential to reconciliation. It doesn’t mean ignoring sin or abuse, but confronting it with grace and aiming for restoration, when possible.
True reconciliation may not always be achieved, but the pursuit of it is a mark of godly character. Those who seek peace reflect their Father in heaven.
