The Parable of the Two Sons: What It Means

by Joshua Andreasen | Founder of Unforsaken

Why did Jesus tell a story about two sons right after the religious leaders questioned His authority? The answer reaches back to John the Baptist and the call to repent. One son said no and later obeyed, while the other sounded respectful but never did what his father asked.

The Leaders Had Already Rejected God’s Authority

Jesus told the Parable of the Two Sons in Jerusalem during the final week before the crucifixion. After entering the city, He cleansed the temple because God’s house had been corrupted. Children praised Him there, while the chief priests and elders watched Him closely.

Matthew 21:23 gives the immediate setting. The leaders asked Jesus, “By what authority are You doing these things? And who gave You this authority?” Their question sounded formal, but they were not humbly seeking truth so they could submit to it. They were challenging the Son of God while trying to protect their own position.

Jesus answered by asking whether John’s baptism was from heaven or from men. That question exposed them. If they admitted it came from heaven, Jesus could ask why they had not believed John. If they dismissed it as merely human, they feared the crowd because the people regarded John as a prophet. Their reply, “We do not know,” was political rather than honest.

Jesus was not avoiding their question about authority. He was showing that they had already rejected the authority God placed before them. John came as Christ’s forerunner and pointed people toward Him. He also called Israel to repentance. If these leaders refused John’s God-given witness, their challenge to Jesus was not sincere investigation. It was another act of resistance.

Their reasoning also revealed what governed them. They did not ask which answer was true. They asked what each answer would cost. One response would expose their unbelief, while the other might anger the crowd. When fear of losing influence decides what a person is willing to confess, an authority question has already become a heart question.

This is why John the Baptist is the key to the parable. He came preaching repentance and preparing the way for Messiah. He warned religious leaders that God could raise up children to Abraham from stones and told them that true repentance bears fruit. Jesus later said that John came “in the way of righteousness.” The leaders heard his message and saw his life, yet they would not believe.

John’s baptism also required a humbling public confession that cleansing and repentance were needed. Tax collectors and harlots could see their need, though responding still required them to turn. For the leaders, the same baptism threatened the image they worked to protect. They could debate theology and manage temple life, but they would not bow before the truth God sent through John.

Luke 7:29-30 describes the divide clearly. Tax collectors who received John’s baptism justified God, which means they acknowledged that God was right. The Pharisees and lawyers rejected God’s will for themselves. The parable that follows is therefore not a puzzle to admire. It is a mirror that leads the leaders to pronounce judgment on their own response.

The contrast is striking because the leaders had more religious knowledge than the tax collectors. Their problem was not lack of information. John had made the way of righteousness plain, and the changed lives around them supplied visible evidence. Knowledge increased their responsibility because they used it to debate God’s messenger instead of receiving his call.

The Same Command Revealed Two Different Hearts

Jesus began by asking, “But what do you think?” Then He described a father with two sons. The father addressed each one as his son and made his will equally clear to both. Each was to work in the vineyard that day. The difference was not opportunity or instruction. It was their response.

“But what do you think? A man had two sons, and he came to the first and said, ‘Son, go, work today in my vineyard.’ He answered and said, ‘I will not,’ but afterward he regretted it and went. Then he came to the second and said likewise. And he answered and said, ‘I go, sir,’ but he did not go.

Matthew 21:28-30

The story is simple, and I think that simplicity gives it force. One son began with rebellious words but later obeyed, while the other spoke respectfully and never went. Jesus did not ask which son sounded better. He asked which one actually did the will of his father.

The vineyard also fits Israel’s biblical background. The prophets often pictured Israel as the LORD’s vineyard, where God rightly looked for fruit. Jesus would soon tell another vineyard parable about wicked tenants. Here the point is more direct: both sons knew what their father wanted, and the work was waiting for them that very day.

Both sons also remained accountable because of their relationship to the father. Being called “son” did not make either response acceptable. The first could not excuse open defiance, and the second could not rely on respectful language. Nearness to the father made obedience more fitting, not less necessary.

Which of the two did the will of his father?” They said to Him, “The first.” Jesus said to them, “Assuredly, I say to you that tax collectors and harlots enter the kingdom of God before you.

Matthew 21:31

The leaders answered correctly, and their answer exposed them. They could recognize obedience when it appeared in a short story, yet they had refused obedience in real life. They knew the first son did the father’s will while they themselves were acting like the second.

The First Son Shows Repentance That Changes Direction

The first son began badly. He told his father, “I will not.” Jesus did not excuse that answer, and we should not turn it into something admirable. It was sinful rebellion that dishonored the father and refused the work. His later obedience did not make the first refusal good. It showed that his response had truly changed.

Matthew says the son later regretted his answer and went. The word translated “regretted” points to a later change of concern. By itself, that word is not a complete doctrine of repentance. The story shows its meaning through what happens next: the son turns from refusal and does what his father commanded.

I think we need to be careful in both directions. The verse does not reduce repentance to an emotion that can pass without change. It also does not teach that the son’s later labor paid for his earlier rebellion. His obedience reveals that the refusal no longer controls him. He now agrees with the father’s will strongly enough to act.

This is why Jesus spoke about tax collectors and harlots. They were not secretly righteous people whose reputations were unfair. Their sins were real and public. Tax collectors were known for corruption and betrayal, while harlots were known for sexual sin. Jesus did not treat that rebellion as harmless. He said they believed John and entered before the leaders because God’s call moved them to repent.

Ezekiel 18:21 describes the same moral direction. A wicked person turns from his sins, keeps God’s statutes, and does what is lawful and right. This does not mean that works earn salvation. It means that a genuine turn from sin is more than religious talk. Repentance changes direction.

The first son’s story is therefore hopeful without becoming careless. A sinful beginning does not have to remain the final word. People who have lived in open rebellion are not beyond God’s call. Yet the hope comes through turning, not through pretending the earlier refusal did not matter.

Jesus’ choice of tax collectors and harlots keeps that hope from becoming abstract. These were people the leaders could point to as obvious sinners, and Jesus did not deny the truth of that charge. He showed that open sinners who believe God’s witness are nearer the kingdom than religious leaders who protect their reputation by refusing to repent.

I think this is an important detail to remember when we talk about regret. A person may feel ashamed or sorry and still keep walking in the same direction. The first son did more than feel bad about what he said; he went to the vineyard. Biblical repentance brings the heart and life back under God’s authority.

The Second Son Exposes Empty Religious Profession

The second son sounded much better at first. He answered, “I go, sir.” His words were respectful, and he knew exactly what he should say. He gave the appearance of submission. Yet he did not go, and the father’s work received none of the obedience his mouth had promised.

This son exposed the chief priests and elders. They possessed Scripture and served in the temple. People honored their religious titles, and their vocabulary sounded reverent. But when John came in righteousness, they did not believe him. When Christ stood before them, they challenged His authority. Their public “yes” covered a heart that remained far from God.

Therefore the Lord said: “Inasmuch as these people draw near with their mouths And honor Me with their lips, But have removed their hearts far from Me, And their fear toward Me is taught by the commandment of men,

Isaiah 29:13

Isaiah’s warning fits because honor from the lips is not the same as obedience. Religious language can become a hiding place for rebellion. Someone can say “sir” while refusing the father’s will. A church can sing words that are true while resisting Scripture, and a reader can agree with doctrine while avoiding repentance.

The problem is not that the second son spoke respectfully. Respect for the father was proper, just as sound doctrine and reverent worship are good. His words became false because he used them in place of obedience. Jesus targeted hypocrisy, not careful belief. The cure is not to care less about truth, but to let truth govern the heart and life.

Jesus gives a related warning in Matthew 7:21. Some will say, “Lord, Lord,” yet be rejected because they practiced lawlessness. Obedience does not purchase entrance into the kingdom. The warning is that calling Jesus Lord while refusing His will is self-deception. His example is especially searching because nothing in his first answer sounds rebellious.

Jesus then named the leaders’ response plainly:

For John came to you in the way of righteousness, and you did not believe him; but tax collectors and harlots believed him; and when you saw it, you did not afterward relent and believe him.

Matthew 21:32

“Enter the kingdom of God before you” was a severe warning. Tax collectors and harlots did not enter because their sins were light. They entered because they believed and repented, while the leaders remained unbelieving. The people who seemed farthest from God were responding to Him, while those who appeared religiously near continued to refuse Him.

The leaders’ guilt became heavier because they saw this and still would not relent. They heard John and watched sinners turn, but the fruit of repentance in people they despised did not humble them. It only revealed how firmly they had hardened themselves. Luke 13:3 gives the wider warning that unless people repent, they will perish.

That last part of Matthew 21:32 should not be passed over. The leaders received another opportunity after their first refusal. They watched how people responded to John, and the changed lives gave them reason to recognize God’s work. Even that evidence did not move them to change their minds. Their continued resistance made them resemble the second son more clearly with every passing day.

Repentant Faith Obeys Without Erasing Israel’s Hope

The parable does not teach salvation by works. Scripture is clear that salvation is by grace through faith. The first son’s work in the vineyard did not buy him a place as a son, and the tax collectors did not earn the kingdom by reforming themselves. They entered because they believed the righteous witness God sent. Their obedience showed that their repentance was real.

But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.

James 1:22

James is not contradicting justification by faith. He is exposing self-deception. Hearing the truth without doing it can make a person feel safe while the heart remains unchanged. The Parable of the Two Sons gives the same warning. A verbal yes to God that never becomes obedience is not the obedience of faith.

Works and fruit must be kept in their proper order. Christ saves; the sinner does not purchase mercy by becoming useful in the vineyard. Yet the faith that receives mercy is not content to keep saying no. As repentance turns the person toward God, obedience begins to appear as the fitting response to grace.

1 Samuel 15:22 says that obedience is better than sacrifice. Religious form cannot replace submission to what God has said. This does not turn obedience into the ground of justification. It shows why religious action offered in place of obedience does not honor the Father.

The father’s command also keeps the lesson practical. He did not ask the son to explain vineyard work, admire it, or promise to go someday. He said to go today. Jesus placed that urgency before the leaders, and it reaches every reader. Delayed obedience can become a polished way of refusing.

The parable also connects with Israel and the Gentiles, but that connection must be handled carefully. God chose Israel and entrusted the nation with the covenants, law, promises, and temple service. Many within Israel professed loyalty to God while rejecting John and Jesus. Meanwhile, sinners within Israel and eventually Gentiles entered through faith.

Romans 9 explains that Gentiles who had not pursued righteousness attained it by faith. Israel pursued the law of righteousness but stumbled because the nation did not seek it by faith. This fits the second son’s moral pattern. Outward nearness and a religious profession cannot replace a believing response to God.

Romans 11 keeps us from turning the parable into replacement theology. Israel’s hardening is partial and temporary. The inclusion of Gentiles does not mean God discarded Israel or broke His covenants. The parable rebukes unbelieving leaders, but it does not cancel God’s future faithfulness to the nation. Romans 11:25-27 must remain beside the warning in Matthew 21.

I do not think we should overlook that boundary. The leaders in this scene represented real unbelief within Israel, but they did not exhaust everything God had promised to the nation. A rebuke of corrupt leadership is not permission to erase the covenants. Paul expects a future work of God connected with Israel even while he explains the present inclusion of Gentiles.

Paul also tells Gentile believers not to boast against the natural branches, because they stand by faith. The parable humbles leaders who refused John, while Romans humbles Gentiles who might become proud of being included. Neither passage leaves room for boasting before God.

The warning belongs in the church as well. Membership, Bible vocabulary, ministry activity, or a doctrinal label can become a second-son disguise when separated from repentance and obedience. Jesus was not attacking doctrine or reverence. He was exposing hypocrisy—the use of religious words to cover a refusal of God’s will.

That brings the father’s word “today” close to us. It is possible to admire repentance as a doctrine while postponing the specific obedience God has made clear. It is also possible to promise a future change in order to quiet the conscience now. The parable does not let a respectful promise stand in for actually going where the Father commands.

You may also want to read A Complete Bible Study on John the Baptist, A Complete Bible Study on Repentance, A Complete Bible Study on Faith, A Complete Bible Study on Soteriology, and A Complete Bible Study on the Parable of the Prodigal Son.

My Final Thoughts

This parable searches me because it is possible to know how submission should sound without actually submitting to God. The first son’s refusal was sinful, but it did not have to be his final answer; he turned and went. The second son’s respectful words could not hide the fact that he never obeyed. Jesus saves sinners by grace through faith on the basis of His physical body given and His blood shed for our sins, so obedience never buys salvation. Yet the faith that receives Him is not an empty yes. It turns from rebellion and follows Christ, bringing life under the Father’s will today.