Newly married men in Israel were given a special exemption from military or civic duties for one year in order to establish and strengthen their marriage. This protection was a recognition of the importance of the family unit and the joy and responsibility of building a household.
“When a man has taken a new wife, he shall not go out to war or be charged with any business; he shall be free at home one year, and bring happiness to his wife whom he has taken.” (Deuteronomy 24:5)
This command ensured that the early stage of marriage was undisturbed, allowing time for emotional, spiritual, and practical bonding. It protected both the husband and wife, promoting stability in the home and laying a strong foundation for family life.
The law showed that God valued the covenant of marriage and desired that it begin with care, joy, and attention. It also reflected God’s concern for the well-being of women, recognizing their need for companionship and support.
In prioritizing the household, this law reinforced that the strength of a nation begins with the strength of its families. While the specific exemption no longer applies under the New Covenant, the principle remains… marriage should be honored and nurtured with commitment and care.
