No, it is not okay for Christians to date non-Christians. Scripture is clear that believers are to be set apart in their relationships, especially in matters as serious as romantic attachment and potential marriage. Dating is not a neutral activity, it is a path toward union, and Scripture gives strong warnings about joining oneself with someone who does not share faith in Christ.
“Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness?” (2 Corinthians 6:14)
This command is not merely about marriage but includes any intimate binding relationship. Being “yoked” refers to walking in step, with the same goals, direction, and purpose. A believer and an unbeliever do not share the same spiritual foundation, leading to inevitable conflict and compromise.
“Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?” (Amos 3:3)
Dating a non-Christian risks compromising your values, weakening your witness, and introducing spiritual tension. God’s design for relationships is to build one another up in the faith:
“Let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works.” (Hebrews 10:24)
Marriage is intended to reflect Christ’s relationship with the church (Ephesians 5:22–33), a picture that cannot be faithfully displayed if one party does not belong to Christ. While many justify such relationships by hoping the unbeliever will convert, Scripture does not support evangelistic dating. The heart must be fixed on obedience, not outcomes.
“He who walks with wise men will be wise, but the companion of fools will be destroyed.” (Proverbs 13:20)
God calls His people to holiness and wisdom in all areas of life, including relationships. Pursuing a romantic bond with someone outside the faith is disobedient and spiritually dangerous.