Christians can use dating apps, but they must do so with discernment, integrity, and a commitment to biblical values. The Bible does not mention dating apps directly, but it does give clear principles for relationships, purity, and wisdom.
Proverbs 3:5–6 says:
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.”
Using a dating app is not inherently sinful, but the motive and method matter. Christians should avoid apps that promote hookup culture, impurity, or shallow connections. They must also guard against deception, haste, and compromising biblical standards.
1 Corinthians 15:33 warns:
“Do not be deceived: Evil company corrupts good habits.”
Dating should aim toward marriage, not casual flings or emotional entanglements. Believers are commanded to be equally yoked:
“Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers.” (2 Corinthians 6:14)
This applies to all dating, whether online or offline. A Christian should never pursue a relationship that would pull them away from Christ or cause them to compromise their faith.
Philippians 1:10 urges:
“That you may approve the things that are excellent, that you may be sincere and without offense till the day of Christ.”
A wise Christian will set boundaries, seek counsel, and pray earnestly before engaging in online dating. They will also pursue accountability and evaluate potential relationships in light of Scripture.
Dating apps can be a tool, but they must never become a replacement for waiting on God, walking in holiness, or trusting His timing.