Paul said it is better not to marry in certain contexts because singleness allows for undivided devotion to the Lord and greater freedom in serving Him without the distractions and obligations that come with family life. His teaching was not a condemnation of marriage, but a recognition of its earthly responsibilities and the unique advantages of a single life dedicated fully to ministry.
In 1 Corinthians 7, Paul writes:
“For I wish that all men were even as I myself. But each one has his own gift from God… I say to the unmarried and to the widows: it is good for them if they remain even as I am.”
(1 Corinthians 7:7–8)
Paul was not saying marriage is sinful. In fact, he affirmed marriage as honorable (Hebrews 13:4) and as a picture of Christ and the church (Ephesians 5:25–32). However, he offered practical counsel based on the circumstances of the time:
“I suppose therefore that this is good because of the present distress—that it is good for a man to remain as he is.”
(1 Corinthians 7:26)
This “present distress” may have referred to persecution or instability in the early church. Paul wanted believers to be spared added burdens.
He continued:
“But I want you to be without care. He who is unmarried cares for the things of the Lord… But he who is married cares about the things of the world—how he may please his wife.”
(1 Corinthians 7:32–33)
This contrast highlights the reality that marriage brings responsibilities. A married person must divide attention between serving God and caring for family. Singleness, when lived in holiness and contentment, allows greater focus on eternal matters.
However, Paul also stated clearly:
“Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband.”
(1 Corinthians 7:2)
His words are not commands but Spirit-led wisdom. He ends the chapter affirming that whether married or single, one must serve the Lord faithfully:
“But she is happier if she remains as she is, according to my judgment—and I think I also have the Spirit of God.”
(1 Corinthians 7:40)
Paul’s counsel is about priorities. Marriage is good, but singleness can be a blessing when used for undistracted service to the Lord.
